Sunday, July 31, 2011

Karen and Wendell are winners





Here are the winners of Big Brother Africa season 6 tagged Big Brother Amplified. It was really amplified with people like Karen, Lomwe, Kim and Luclay. Wendall was a gentleman in the house but that to some people is entertaining.
Luclay was very entertaining, very unpredictable and sometimes unstable. I guess some African countries find his yelling too much to handle. The other aspect that made him unpopular was his disagreement with Bhoke that earned her eviction. Most viewers did not find that entertaining at all. In fact that was a real minus with the women and the young ladies who watched the reality show.
The South African representatives should desist from sending fellow housemates home. They honestly have a chance at winning but they always blew it by causing others to be unceremoniously evicted. Africa does not like that. It is always mean and petty and the only way Africa can register their protest is to vote South Africa out.
In Big Brother Africa 5 titled All-Stars, Lerato had a chance of winning the prize but her arguement with hannington that resulted in him being evicted cost her that prize. Again Luclay repeated the same mistake and that cost him the prize too.
Karen deserved to win because she kept it real and very entertaining for the 91 days. She was truly amplified. She may not be the role model for young African girls but she was herself. On the other hand, Wendall was a surprise winner. I never saw him as a winner but other Africans did and they voted for him.
Congratulations to the winners.
I honestly wish both of them will use the money wisely.
For the other 24 housemates, may they use this platform that Big Brother Africa has provided for them to improve their life and impact on the African society. This continent really needs role models and visioners

Saturday, July 30, 2011

KAREN IGHO, AFRICAN AMAZON



Big Brother Africa 6 is ending tomorrow after three months of pure entertainment.
This year's edition was termed BIG BROTHER AMPLIFIED and truly it is amplified because of some of those housemates who are quite entertaining.
Starting from the bossy Ghananian CONFIDENCE to LUCLAY from South Arica to beautiful, sophisticated Angolan Diva, WEZA, ALEX, MISS P, ZEUS, VIMBAI the model, KIMBERLEY the man hunter who moves from one man to another with ease and HANNI the simple, innocent girl from ETHIOPIA, LLOMWE the radio deejay who thinks he is a gift to the girls in the house and they need to fight for his affection, VINA the 'oyinbo speaking gal, and to KAREN african amazon . Its been drama all the way.
But KAREN is something else. I read a write up by someone in the BBA website tagged the Karen's story. The man captured what KAREN epitomises. A woman who is simply looking for a purpose for her life. She is a simple 'village' girl (she has moved to London now because of her modelling career) who is looking for love and appreciation. She is simply dramatic, down-to-earth, dumb, erractic and comical personality.
Vina on the other hand is the intelligent, pampered, vocal silver spoon girl('ajebota' meaning butter-fed child in yoruba-Nigeria) who behaves as if she knows everything. She is a sharp opposite of Karen. Infact this week, when she and Karen had one of those their diaagreements, Karen shouted on her to let her be dumb if she wants to. Vina is always displaying her effervescent Queen’s English as well as mild mannerisms which to me seem forced or a show to prove I am a been-to. Meanwhile Karen, our dear Karen struts and challenges whosoever that confronts her in her natural and chronically native English with a very thick accent. At times I wonder which part of Nigeria she is from. IGHO is from Edo but her accent is like someone from Cross River state. Anyway, she does not care what you think. To quote the writer, Karen is "tempestuous and behaves like a village or street girl with a great knack for verbosity that oftentimes goes over the tops. Karen is a walking oxymoron. She’s friendly and combative. She’s kind-hearted and bitchy. She’s generous and ruthless. No one messes up with Karen and escapes the rage of this volcanic eruption. Not even the Drama King Luclay from Cape Town, South Africa can bully this self-proclaimed gangster. Karen hits her target with the velocity of a thunderbolt and moves on as if nothing has happened. She’s turned the BIG BROTHER AMPLIFIED HOUSE into your typical house of commotion full of sound and fury. There is only one boss here and that is Karen." This is very true of Karen.
Karen is unpredictable character. When you think she is going to get angry and shout she may not. its been said that she is a street girl with nude photographs on the internet but she has more values than some of those 'GOOD GIRLs'. When BHOKE was sleeping with ERNEST she condemned her for doing that on TV. She was really angry at BHOKE. Till BHOKE left, she was not close to her. Karen does not pretend to be who she is not and that is why she has been true to the last. Yesterday when she quarelled with Vina she said she was not going to pretend to be someone else just because the reality show is coming to an end. Karen stood up to any one who dared her. Her voice alone like WEZA's will make you run for cover. She is making BIG BROTHER AMPLIFIED a pure unadulterated entertainment. She came to catch some fun and that she is doing wholeheartedly.
When she was the head of house and she was nominated for eviction, she did not save herself and being human she cried and i did identify with that. it touched me. As a head of house, she displayed traits that i did not believe she had. She was really leading by example.
Finall quoting from the writer, "Karen's story resonated with those who shared her similar travails. Many saw Karen in them and them in Karen. It was easy to dismiss her as a street-girl, a ruthless bitch, a reckless drunk, a loquacious and shameless impressionist. But she was true to herself. She is a free spirit who’s willing to roam unfettered. She was born to fly and fly she must. She does not care what you and I think of her tantrums; she cares only about what she thinks of herself. The world for her has always been cold and mean to her. And there is nothing more to fear for someone who’s already down. What will be, will be, and that is all that matters."
What will be will be and KAREN is winning the $200,000 tommorow. Please Karen, remain you because it is only you that can help you. Goodluck.

BBA AMPLIFIED 6






Big Brother Africa 6 is ending tomorrow after 90 days of entertainment. A journey that began Sunday, May 1, 2011 is coming to an end tomorrow Sunday 31 July 2011. There were 26 housemates that entered the BIG BROTHER HOUSE 6. Normally they used to be fourteen (14) housemates but this year, there were 26. I was wondering what was happening but when I read that it was tagged AMPLIFIED, i knew the more the housemates, the more the drama would be amplified. Each housemate had strategies and game plan on how to be entertaining and finally emerge the winner carting home the prize - USD200,000. But Big Brother had his and that was to double up the prize for the Amplified season 6 and have two winners.

After 90 days of drama, fights (Luclay and Lotus)tears & smiles, celebrations, frustrations, disappointments and friendships, Housemates await their fate. Until 6am tomorrow morning the votes from Africa and the rest of the world will determine the Queens, Kings or King and Queen of BIG BROTHER AFRICA AMPLIFIED 6. Who will take home the prize money? The power to crown the Big Brother Africa Amplified winner rests solely in the hands of viewers. Please vote for the housemate of your choice or vote KAREN.
After 84 days the following housemates made it to the finals of Big Brother Africa Amplified, Vina, Karen, Luclay, Wendall, Hanni, Sharon O, and Lomwe. Who will be crowned? We have less than 24 hours to find out.

These are the 26 housemates that entered the house

BHOKE from TANZANIA
Giving herself to Ernest which did not go down well with KAREN surprisingly.

CONFIDENCE from GHANA
The bossy over-confident lady

HANNI from ETHIOPIA
She is simple and has childlike innocence that endears her to all. She is always settling quarrels among the housemates (peacemaker). Above all she has a sweet voice.

DANNY from ETHIOPIA

JOSSY from NAMIBIA

LOMWE from MALAWI
The guy who feels he is the cool guy that all the ladies must fight for in the house. From VINA to SHARON O to KIMBERLEY, he loved their attentions and closeness.

LUCLAY from SOUTH AFRICA
The bully who at times is so soft in heart. Always yelling at other housemates and bad with alcohols.

MILLICENT from KENYA
She is a good actress. Performed so well their radio task with KAREN. She has a beautiful well curved body but not so pretty.

MUMBA from ZAMBIA
She is very organised and focused woman. She is truly an African women. Responsible, professional and friendly.

SHARON O from UGANDA
The artist and the supposed beauty queen who was always crying to get attention somehow. The mirror is her best friend because she never stopped admiring her face in it.

VIMBAI from ZIMBABWE
The vindictive vixen who was always fighting with the Nigerian girls. So protective of WENDALL. She is the supermodel who was always ready to show off her body in the house. Beautiful face and body.

VINA from NIGERIA
The Queens English speaker who unnecessarily shows off her vocal ability. Her attitude of being better than KAREN is not going down well with Nigerians.

WEZA from ANGOLA
She is the sophisticated beauty with a husky voice. She has a beautiful body that drives the men mad with desire. When she entered the tail house all the men went gaga and the girls became jealous except Karen who was not interested initially with relationship in the house.

ZEUS from BOSTWANA
Intelligent and persuasive. He is the rapper that succeeded in turning KAREN into a lady that she never wanted to be.

WENDALL from ZIMBABWE
The action less housemates who had VIMBAI defending him from other housemates especially from KAREN.

PEO from BOTSWANA
Nice but too jealous

NKULI from SOUTH AFRICA
Spiteful and childish

NIC from KENYA


MICHAEL from MOZAMBIQUE

LOTUS from TANZANIA

ALEX from GHANA
The fashion freak who lost my respect when he agreed to Miss P little drama to deceive and cause frictions among the girls in the house. That was really mean.

KAREN from NIGERIA
She a girl full of life and positive beliefs. She is fearless. She tells you how it is or how she feels She does not pretend that she is a saint and her fake boobs says it all. But you know what, she is selfless.

KIM from ZAMBIA
She is the manipulator who aggressively pursue her men and get them into her bed. She was really daring.

FELICIA from MALAWI
The talker

ERNEST from UGANDA

BERNADINA from NAMIBIA
She is cool and calm. Very supportive and understanding of the other housemates.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

SHINA RAMBO

This was sent from a friend. Read, learn and pray.

SHINA RAMBO Notorious ex-armed robber: How I tormented Lagosians, Police and innocent people


Shina Rambo was a household name in the world of crime - fearful, ruthless, dangerous and a terror in the society. The former kingpin and a serpent to security agencies is now a professed Evangelist and maverick preacher who is as meek as a dove. In this encounter with Sina Fadare, he poured out his mind on how he tormented Lagosians, the police and how he snatched 42 exotic cars in a day and how he remained invisible for the police dragnet.

What’s your background and where are you actually from?
It is true that people are always confused about where l come from. Actually my father came from Abeokuta in Ogun State, but I from Sanbogida-Ora in Edo State. That is where my mother came from and where l lived all my early life.

How did you acquire the name Sina Rambo?
There is a saying in Yoruba that a child acquires any name that suits him when he was not in his place of birth. That was the appellation l was given in those days when l ventured into the world of crime. The name that was given to me at birth was Omokenwa, meaning a child is the one that takes care of the home. The meaning of Sina Rambo stands for a team or a group of deadly squad with a mission. I was the Rambo. Therefore, the merging of Shina with Rambo is just like any organisation like cooperative society which has each name to identify their group, yet they belong to the same cooperative society. To those people who thought that l came from Cotonou, Republic of Benin, or Sabongida- Ora, they are all correct because wherever you are living or place you are used to, that is your home. Though my father is from Abeokuta, many people did not know me there because apart from Cotonou where my operating business took me, l lived my adolescent life in Edo State, the place of my mother.

At what point in your life did you veer into crime?

Everything comes down to the lackadaisical attitude of my parents in taking adequate care of my need when l was growing up. My father was a military man who married virtually everywhere he was posted to in his career; this gave him the opportunity to have many wives. One of the early memories l could recollect which l will never forget in my life was that my father was the first person to cut me with a cutlass. That is why l said that the nonchalant attitude of my parents dragged me into the world of crime.

Was that actually what led you into crime?

I will say that the moment a child lacks parental care, love and attention, such a child is being nursed towards crime. In my own case it was a combination of many things that led me to the world of crime. Poor and not caring family, later my business was almost grinded when some of my goods were confiscated. Along the line, my younger brother was also killed; in the mission of avenging l was gradually involved in crime and before l knew it l wanted to excel in it. What we called the real Shina Rambo lives inside.

Your name created tremor among people in society, the security operatives inclusive, how did you get such power?

If a child knows how to wash his hand well, definitely he will eat with the elders. I know how to appease the elders, therefore anything l need from them l usually get it. Now that l am in Christ, l know better. The fact is if you decide to eat with the devil, make sure you do it to a logical conclusion and if you want to follow Christ, let him be your sole companion in anything that you are doing. I got power in the world of devil, and l followed it to a logical conclusion. In the world of the devil, police or any security has nothing to do with us, as a daredevil robber then. There are certain things which an armed robber should have. The first is what you call afoola. We used many human beings to do this native medicine, including a foetus in his mother’s womb. The second is ikiya (boldness).

This will give you the audacity and effrontery to do anything at any time no matter how dangerous the venture is. The third one is that anybody who wants to venture into highlevel robbery must be ready to squeeze all the water inside his eye and use it for a powerful medicine, so that there is nothing that would happen that such a person will cry again, no matter how devastating or big such a calamity is. I searched for power from the demons of various types, inside the most powerful water called water of the world at a town called Ogoja. All leaders of the world who are actually looking for power used to go inside this water. At that point when I was on operation l will put on the appearance of different types of people to the extent that it was difficult for anybody to identify my real being. There is no amount of picture that you took that you will get a clear view. That was why when they said that, ‘Oh! they have killed Shina Rambo,’ but it was another person that they would kill instead. From that place, l went to Oke Idanre and later Enugu and Abeokuta to look for power that can make me to be invisible at will.

I was able to have a magical power that allowed me to look differently in eight places. At Abeokuta, the nine herbalists that did the medicine for me were killed so that one day they will not reveal the secret behind the medicine to any mortal. There is a place in Oyo State called Fiditi; lawyers also go there to look for power. Along the line l entered into different cults that are very powerful. There they have to change my body because l was buried alive for seven days in the burial ground and my soul was kept in a small coffin. After the seventh day, l became powerful and more dangerous, too hot to be handled by anybody. Again l went inside the Iroko tree to seek for power. In fact, you will not believe the number of houses that you will find inside the Iroko tree, its a whole town inside the tree. When you get there, you are going to chant some incantations and the door will open, you will see various types of people engaging in activities like selling, eating, having meeting and doing all sorts of things done in the physical world. When l went there, we entered through the ninth door before we entered the town. I was able to do this because l was able to produce for the elders what they needed, so they were ready to give me what l wanted and ready to take me to wherever it would be possible for me to get what l wanted. There was a time l was taken to a burial place with 15 heads to go and to collect some charms from the spirit. From there, l was fortified to the extent that there is no bullet that could enter my body, it will just be like pure water.

What is your relationship with the police?
Normally we and the police are supposed to be enemies, but unfortunately a lot of them are our friends. There are some policemen who are mere saboteurs; they love money more than the job. Such police officers are mole in the force because they sell vital information to robbers and most of the time turned their back when their “friends” are on the road. At this point in time, it is people like us who could assist government to nab criminals because l know their antics and modus operandi. Not all of police are bad, but there are some moles among them that are spoiling their good work. These few ones know the real robbers and most of the time assist them (robbers) to achieve their deadly mission.

You were once rich and famous where is the wealth today?

In the first instance, where did all the luxuries come from? No matter how plenty the devil gives, it is for a short period, he will collect it back. No matter how smart you are, any covenant with the devil, you are going to lose at the end. It is the devil that will give you a cap and in return asking buba and gele from you. Vanity upon vanity all is vanity. There is nothing that one can gain from the devil apart from frustration and humiliation; at the end you are going to have disappointment. You can imagine when I would strike and snatch more than 30 cars. I once snatched over 42 cars in a day. Some of the cars I gave to whomever I wanted. I had so much then. Paul said in Philippians 3:7-13 “But, all that amounted to profit for me in life, I have now seen as loss in Christ”. Verse 13 now says, “Brethren, I have forgotten the things that are behind, I press towards things ahead.” In Psalm 126:1, the same Bible tells me that “when God returns the loss of Zion, we would be like them that dream”. I know that to rise in Christ is the responsibility of every member of the household of faith. The Holy Spirit would use every true Christian to put on real genuine footing. The devil gave me so much at that time and it took what it gave me. If I have to recall the painful details and the anguish, it does not worth it because I am a new creature. What has been destroyed cannot be restored just like that. We are now in Christ, he owns and dispenses eternal joy, when we end our race here, we would return to our eternal home: heaven, where there is no weeping, no anxiety, anguish, hunger and pain.

Do you have any godfather?

Definitely. When we were in Edo, we had our godfather who is always there for us anytime we went on operation. It was the same place that the likes of Anini, a.k.a. the law and Monday Osunbor Pero, and Lucky learnt the rudiment of robbery. We sprung up from one source.

What usually comes to your mind any day you are going for operation?

The first thing that readily came to mind was that ‘the dead must be done’. But before that, we must first ask people who owns the world how the day would look like before we step out. There is a charm called atona (Pathfinder) that we consult before we go out. It would tell us what we are going to do and which sacrifice we are going to make before we move out. Again there is what we call eru (fear) which has been deposited into my body, wherever l go, that fear will not let you challenge my authority.

Where and how did you get the ammunition you were using?

As I told you that my father was a military man, from the beginning gun had been assembled and dismembered in our house. Innocently, my father will be doing this virtually on a daily basis and he tells me to go and bring one or two things that had connection with the gun in the house and at the end he would put the gun together as one. From that daily experience l knew how to handle a gun and by the time l left him, there was no gun l could not put together. Ironically, what parents did not take serious and handle with levity, the kids are fast learning and before you know it, they have mastered the act. If it is a bad habit, the family will definitely pay for it. The gun l was using then was in pieces when brought from outside the country. I later put it together to make it a complete gun. After that l return it into the world of darkness where it was changed to the gun of the elders. After this l just recite a few incantations to the gun and whatever l ask the gun to do is what it will do. However there is no gun that l cannot handle a few minutes after studying it.

Those who are working with you, how were they trained?

There is always time for training; we teach them how to handle it and how to get their target. It was an extensive training which we normally do most of the time especially when we are going on operation. All those that are working with me are all in the same cult, they know our dos and don’ts, we have gone to many places together, that was why it was difficult for the police to kill anyone of us. There is a general charm that the death that is meant to kill anyone of us should kill outsiders. There are some incantations to back it up and it would be backed up in the world of darkness. Therefore anywhere we go on operation, instead of recording any casualty, it is the people around that will die.

Can you recollect how many people your gun had killed?

No, they are just plenty that l cannot remember. Aside from this, l used a lot of people for sacrifice that l cannot even remember. I don’t want to remember those dark days.

Now that you are a pastor, do you believe that there is a curse that actually affected your destiny?

You are right. There is a saying in Yoruba that it is only in war that one can die accidentally, but a curse has a target and no matter the year it was invoked it will still be operational. That crisis and curse entered my life when l was still in my mother’s womb. My father is a polygamist and one day there was a quarrel between my mother and my father’s mother. Then l was told that my father’s mother invoked a curse on my mother that she will never deliver me in peace otherwise she is not from Ikereke (a town in Oyo State) and my mother replied that she will have a normal delivery as God lives otherwise she will not serve God if she comes in the next word. From that altercation from both, the curse entered into my life and l carried the curse and the burden until l met Christ.

How do you handle women and wine?

I engaged in all what you can call devilish ventures, like smoking of Indian hemp, wine and in the company of women of easy virtue. I was in a hotel with about 58 women playing with me, but the warning from the world of darkness is that l should not take any of them to bed. The instruction l followed to the letter. Then l love women but there was a boundary which l must not cross. I am compelled to have fun with my only wife who knew my entire venture into the world of darkness. That was why all the women sent to me cannot do anything to me. Though l spent for them, but that was just the limit l could go.

Is it true that you once spent N50 million a day?

How many of that do you want to count, plenty? There was a time we went for an operation in Lagos, and it seemed we were in a tight corner, we just decided to be giving out the money to the people in order to escape. There was commotion, everybody was trying to pick as many naira notes as they can pick.

Did your friends know the type of person you were?

You know birds of the same feather always flock together. The so-called friends that l was moving with as at then were also into one form of shady deals or the other. But the funny thing is that nobody could identify my being with what l was doing. Even if some of them know me they cannot say it out because it was too dangerous and there was nobody l cannot kill. I usually come out in different faces which made it difficult for anybody to really identify me. That was the power given to me in the world of darkness.

Who was the lady that used to accompany you to all operations?

She was not a human being, though people referred to her as an alhaja, but she was a demon donated to me in the world of darkness. She will dress the way l dressed and must always be with me any time I am going out on operation. She is the one that was picked from the kingdom of Satan to be my partner.

How did you meet Christ?

It was such a miraculous way. I met Christ at a cross road. It was a miracle l did not expect. I met Christ through Prophet T. O. Obadare. I made myself available to the police and l have to bear all the detention and all the agonies l faced for about 11 years. A lot of Christian brothers rallied round me with conviction that l should give my life to Christ. Then Papa Obadare came to me in the prison that though l was expecting death, God has removed death from my head if I am ready to surrender everything to him. In my own thinking l thought all was over, with all the atrocities l had committed, but God showed me mercy and gave me the second chance. So when l slept, l saw that the cloth of yoke and burden was removed from my neck, l was off from the bondage of Satan, a new cloth was given to me. By the time l woke up, l was talking in tongues. From that encounter, for the first time in my life that my soul would calm down, l learnt how to pray. I stopped taking cocaine and Indian hemp. Everything about me became new.

What do you think government can do to stop robbery?

The simple truth is that we cannot stop robbery, but we can reduce it to the barest minimum, because we asked for it. In Matthew 27, we asked for it. They said Barnabas should be released instead of Jesus Christ, when Pilate said that this man did not commit any sin. They said no way, release Barnabas and let his blood be on us and on our children. Ever since then robbery and killing became the order of the day. Government should be able to tap from the wealth of experience of people like us who can decode a lot of knotty issues as regard how to curb the menace of armed robbery. Some of those that are inside the prison are not supposed to be there. By the time they are out, they become hardened criminals. I pray that God will help us to make things work in this country, if he could locate me from the pit of darkness where l sojourned, and now in Christ, he will deliver the country from bad leaders who make things difficult for the masses.

MY GOD IS ABLE TO DO ALL THINGS.

Sunday, June 26, 2011

flood in Lagos







Whoa!!! This year, the rain has come down in full force. ITS been raining since February and it looks like this year the floods will be uncontrollable because of roads construction and re-construction of canals all over Lagos.
At the beginning of the year, we made up our mind to send our tenant packing after leaving for Jos and leaving the wife behind who was not ready to pay for services enjoyed in the compound. Even the rent was not paid and electricity bill was not paid either. Unfortunately, we were sharing the electricity bill payment with them so we had to be paying for them. We called the husband who unfortunately had some issues with the her and he did not respond. We had no choice than to ask hem to leave. The guy sent his brothers to come here and pack his things when the wife was at work. The wife called me to stop them but i advised her to talk to her husband. The people that came to pack their belongings were her in laws and I know they wouldn't come without being authorised by her husband. Finally, that was sorted out and all except her kitchen utensils were moved out. Eventually she came to move her kitchen stuffs out. At last the apartment was vacant and we decided to renovate before letting it out. The flat was in a terrible state.
It was in this process of renovation that the torrential rainfall of Wednesday June 22 2011 came.
THE rain started early in our area. In fact in all areas in Lagos it started early. it was only those who left home early for work that were lucky. Those who left late had to contend with the traffic jam while others were stranded at the bus stops. The rain came in torrents and the whole area was flooded.
We all know in Lagos that the rainy season comes with flooding, traffic jam and long waits at bus stops but the rain of few days ago was much more than anticipated. It was really bad to the extent most people did not go to work. I couldn't. My street was so flooded that cars were covered. The few people that dared to walk through the flood were covered to the waist. It rained almost throughout the day because the rain came intermittently from dawn to dusk.
We in Lagos know that the rainy season comes with inconveniences and sometimes nightmares. Most Lagosians would wish it does not rain in Lagos at all. But that is not possible. Whether it is rain or sunshine, there is time for everything. There is a season for everything and God decides that and no man can stop any of the season from coming to pass.
That Wednesday all of Lekki,, Orile Iganmu, Iju, Surulere, Mile two, and Ikeja were almost submerged by flood. Owode Onirin area area on the way to Ikorodu was another story. Every year that area is always overtaken by flood. So the Lagos State Government had advised residents to move out from that area. But most of them claimed getting accommodation elsewhere cost so much so relocation was not an issue to be considered. Last year they were forced to relocate to the camp provided by the government.
In our area it was the blocked canal due to its recontruction that caused it. We have pleaded with the government to ask the contractors to open up the canal so easy flow of water

Sunday, June 19, 2011

fathers day

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY

Today Sunday June 19thh 2011 is Father's day in Nigeria. In my church, the Bishop prayed for all the fathers and admonished them to truly be fathers spiritually and emotionally. Fathers should endeavour to be the best men for their children, families, communities and places of worship.

Times are hard as they say and people are being challenged spiritually, economically, environmentally and politically but a true head must be determined and strong for their children and family.

To truly be the head of the family,

- Father must be financial head of the home and provide for his family at all times.

- Fathers should be the spiritual head, pray with their children and families often.

- Fathers discipline their children with love with or without the rod and not verbal abuse or emotional manipulation.

- Fathers will not disrespect their wives or other women especially before others; this sets an inappropriate and dangerous model for their sons to follow.

- Fathers lead family altars and anoint their children with oil for protection and mercy daily.

- Fathers take time to visit their children's school and talk to the teachers about their children's progress.

- Fathers will happily sacrifice for their families.

- Fathers will visit their children at the appointed time even after divorce.

- Fathers are not afraid to show love to their children. Children need to be reminded they are loved and their opinion respected.

- Fathers spend time just being together with their children and doing things their children like and will remember, not just buying things that will someday be forgotten.

- Fathers teach their children to be responsible and accountable for their actions.

- Fathers must model and teach respect, honor, patience, ethics and fear of the Lord.

- FATHERS must offer timely and godly counsel to their children.

Happy father's day to all fathers in Nigeria and beyond.

Menace of Boko Haram


Terrorism in Nigeria

The first time Nigeria had a direct link to terrorism was when a Nigerian Abdul Muttalab tried to blow himself and the plane he boarded in December 2009. Fortunately, he failed and he was arrested in the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA for alleged terror( the case is still in court and since he is not charged, it is still alleged). The young Muttalab confessed that he is not the only one in Nigeria trained in the act of terrorism in Yemen. Then our government was concerned with removing the Country name from the list of terrorist watch list.
Although Nigeria had some bomb explosions during Abacha draconian regime,it was not terrorism because it was the government that paid people to bomb those areas to implicate critics and activists. It was done then by ABACHA's CSO to implicate his opponents.
Terrorism, terrorists and suicide bombers were not in our vocabulary. We were only seeing them on television and reading about them in the National dailies and on Internets. Suddenly, we woke up one day and suicide bombing and terrorists have taken over the Northern part of Nigeria. Gradually terrorism has crept into our system. In Nigeria there are called BOKO HARAM.

Now we have Islamic extremists who have decided to aggressively prosecute and kill those who are not ready to accept Islamic system of government called Sharia. IT started in Borno State but the Police and other security agencies refused to do anything to stop it claiming the extremists were their brother. I wonder what the Niger Deltan of the South South are? When the kidnapping was at its peak in Nigeria the government ordered the military joint task force to surround the creeks and smoke out the militants. In fact during Obasanjo's regime, the community (ODI) where the armies were killed was shelled and levelled down by the Military.

Why is the present administration not taking a stand on these incessant attacks by Boko Haram suicide bombers on innocent citizens.

The Christian Association of Nigeria raised an alarm some time ago that some extremist groups were being trained in some camps in the North. Nigerian Government were concerned with several points agenda which never took off. THE Government did not take the alarm seriously or heeded the warning. Now we are all faced with the terror unleashed by the BOKO HARAM Sect on Nigerians. Unfortunately, the sect leaders are unknown and the cause they are supposedly fighting for unknown too. We are all speculating and giving reasons which we think can explain why the sect has gone on these killing spree.

The Security Agencies need to wake up and ensure the red alert of security is on. Imagine the Sect bombing Police Headquarters in Abuja? They were in the Police Inspector General convoy from home to the office. It was shocking and unbelievable. But it was true and real.
The Police also need to gather more information, re-strategise and increase their intelligence gathering. The menace of Boko Haram has continued due to poor intelligence.